For me the BFing was the most worrisome. I really, really, wanted to be able to do it. I have always wanted to be a mom, even as a child I have pictures of me pretending to BF a doll.
Check it out wasn't I cute!?! My biggest fear was not producing enough milk. I was told so many stories of women who did not produce enough milk. I was even told of my Great-Grandmother who in Cuba did not produce enough milk for my Grandfather. The family had to buy a goat for him. And then he ended being allergic to the goat milk so they had hire a wet nurse. Talk about crazy! I was also told, because I was well endowed that the baby might not be able to get the milk to come down. I was seriously petrified of not being able to feed my child. Well ladies don't listen to a single negative story! That would be my biggest piece of advice. I ended up producing more then enough milk for my son and so much that we had to buy a deep freezer. Read about that later.
I wanted to be prepared for every possible BFing problem. So I searched and searched the Internet looking for the ULTIMATE BFing guide book. There are so many I didn't know how to pick one. I wanted the one that would have all the answers! Fortunately, my friend ~J~ came to my rescue! She told me about Dr. Jack Newman and his amazing website. I immediately checked it out! It is a great website. There are videos, steps to take to correct problems, and you can email him your questions... I had to get his book Dr. Jack Newman's Guide to Breastfeeding. As soon as I got it I read it just about cover to cover. I finally felt armed and ready to succeed in BFing.
In my opinion this is the best book to get and his website has a plethora of information.
http://www.drjacknewman.com/
What a heart throbbing story! How was your grandfather after that goat milking? Do he still have the allergy?
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